A little more help please?

It sounds like she is trying to cause trouble between you and your boyfriend. She might be manipulating you (because she knows you are a nice person and will help) by playing the "poor me" girl. Be very careful, because she might be trying to get back at him for whatever he did or said by putting you in the middle. Talk to your bf about it, tell him you are on his side, but you feel helping in the charity is the right thing to do. I would want to know what happened with her, too. Because that might clue you in on her actions. I would also tell your man about her hitting on you, because if she tells him and you dont, he will wonder why you never said anything. I would.